tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30994832.post7543688527783476931..comments2023-05-06T05:29:37.522-04:00Comments on My Crabby Thoughts...: Q & A #8Angellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09852706482954687440noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30994832.post-70557894504178157792008-06-06T11:10:00.000-04:002008-06-06T11:10:00.000-04:00I have to agree with Rhiannon. Nurture does play ...I have to agree with Rhiannon. Nurture does play a huge role. It is important, as parents, to teach children how to deal with everyday situations. <BR/>Also, I think about how my son is having sensory integration processing issues which can be related to nature. But with nurture, he can overcome these obstacles.Jacquelinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18209066776095647750noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30994832.post-15578811124824648642008-06-03T20:18:00.000-04:002008-06-03T20:18:00.000-04:00I will definitely say nurture. Being a teacher to...I will definitely say nurture. Being a teacher to students with behavior problems I have seen proof! As soon as you meet those kids parents and hear what they have to say you can totally see why their kids have issues! Most of the time when the kids are in a structured environment with set rules and expectations, you don't see any of the behaviors the parents complain about at home.Rhiannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17980164592182130452noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30994832.post-86652008723963765632008-06-03T13:50:00.000-04:002008-06-03T13:50:00.000-04:00I agree with everyone else! I'm a children and fa...I agree with everyone else! I'm a children and family therapist so I have seen a lot of "different" families. I think kids are born with their own personalities and traits (stubborn, easy going, out going etc). I firmly feel it's how the parents react to their kids personalities and how the parents teach their children to use their strengths and work on their weaknesses. Modeling plays a HUGE role in parenting! I know my 2 kids are completely different and I have to approach disapline slightly different with each of them.<BR/>With that being said, I also know that severe mental illnesses(and obviously medical conditions) are definitely hereditary. Just because a person has Bipolar Disorder, doesn't mean they had terrible parents. In fact, they may have had the best parents. I have seen a lot of parents who are judged by others because their child has behavior problems that are caused by mental illness. It is very sad, and our society is quick to blame parents. <BR/><BR/>In most cases, nuture is the true winner! But... stop next time you are about to judge a parent whose child has behavior problems...they might not be as lucky as you.<BR/><BR/>KathyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30994832.post-46581333822827412502008-06-03T13:38:00.000-04:002008-06-03T13:38:00.000-04:00I say 30% nature and 70% nurture. Prime example -...I say 30% nature and 70% nurture. Prime example - I can't STAND it when people say, "oh, my kid's not a good sleeper". I want to say, "WELL THEN MAKE HIM GET OUT OF YOUR HUSBAND AND YOUR BED AND MAKE HIM CRY A MINUTE!" Pass your "not a good sleeper" kid to me for 3 nights straight and he'll be sleeping through the night. I say for the sleeping thing it's 100% nurture - NO nature... Personality? more nature than that but I think a LOT is how you react to your children, what environment you create, etc. Autism research? Nature and environment (genetics + environment linked). There's my soapbox. Have I ever told you that Healthy Sleep Habits is my favorite baby book of all time??? :) Great post - can't wait to hear your response!Mandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10397993051378698456noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30994832.post-86962730288979438962008-06-03T13:15:00.000-04:002008-06-03T13:15:00.000-04:00I am going to have to say nurture. I know that nat...I am going to have to say nurture. I know that nature definetly plays a big role but I believe that how a child is raised and the values that they are taught ultimatly is what helps define who they are. The examples they see at home and the lessons that their family teaches them set the tone on how they in turn will raise their family and how they will handle situations that life throws at them.Tiffanyrosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06552332586503281648noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30994832.post-22866529956634209792008-06-03T12:03:00.000-04:002008-06-03T12:03:00.000-04:00Interesting question! So much of a person's perso...Interesting question! So much of a person's personality is inheritant by nature. Which becomes obvious when you have multiple kids and they all have their very distinct personalities. <BR/><BR/>But I definitely think nuture plays a stronger societal role. Which I bet is obvious from a teacher's perspective. I bet you can tell right away if a kid gets attention and love and support at home and how that affects their social skills, their desire to learn, their respect for authority. <BR/><BR/>I've also seen birth order have a huge effect on a person's personality. The youngest child tends to be more spoiled because the parents tend to ease up on the discipline. The youngest child (in a family with three or more kids) also tends to be the most outgoing, not because they're born that way but because their environment molds them. So yeah, my answer is that nuture plays a bigger role. A more impactful role, anyway.Nikkihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14168028916053587639noreply@blogger.com